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BPD AtlasBorderline personality disorder

Self-check: notes for a clinician

Putting experiences into words can be hard in a short appointment. Use this private checklist to note what you have noticed, add examples, and choose questions to ask. Then print or save it and bring it with you.

Notes for a clinician

What you have noticed

1. Check anything that sounds like you, now or over a long stretch of time

Add an example if it helps you remember. Leave anything blank that does not fit. Based on the symptom list from the National Institute of Mental Health

Emotions
Relationships
Sense of self
Behavior

If these happen mostly when your mood or energy is unusually high, mention that too. It can point to a different condition, such as a mood disorder.

Safety
2. A little more about your situation (optional)
3. Questions to ask

Uncheck any you do not want on your printout.

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Your notes

To bring to a clinician

This is not a test. It gives no score and cannot tell you whether you have borderline personality disorder or any other condition. Only a licensed mental health professional can make a diagnosis, after a full assessment.

Things I have noticed

Nothing checked yet.

Questions I want to ask

  • Could borderline personality disorder, another condition, or more than one condition explain what I am experiencing?
  • Can I have a full assessment, or a referral to a mental health professional who can do one?
  • Could we use a questionnaire to measure my symptoms now and track changes during treatment?
  • Which structured therapies for borderline personality disorder are available near me, and how long do they last?
  • Can we write a treatment plan and a crisis plan together?
  • If a medicine is suggested, what specific symptom is it for, and when will we review it?
  • How could my family or friends be involved, if I want them to be?

Print and save turn on once you check an item or write a note. Print opens your print dialog, where you can also choose Save as PDF. Save notes downloads a small text file. Nothing is stored or sent, and reloading the page clears everything.

What to do next

Take your notes to a provider

Book a visit

A primary care provider can refer you to a qualified mental health professional, such as a psychologist, psychiatrist, or clinical social worker.

National Institute of Mental Health · Borderline personality disorder (brochure)

Learn how diagnosis works

What a full assessment covers, why there is no single test, and how other conditions are considered.

American Psychiatric Association · Updated borderline personality disorder practice guideline (news release, Dec 10, 2024)

Track a week

Providers ask how strong symptoms are and how often they happen. A weekly diary card makes those answers easier.

National Institute of Mental Health · Tips for talking with a health care provider

About these notes

Why this is not a scored questionnaire

The statements on this page restate the symptom list published by the National Institute of Mental Health, in the first person. They are not a validated questionnaire, so the page does not count your answers or suggest what they mean.

The American Psychiatric Association suggests that a first evaluation include a quantitative measure, such as a questionnaire or rating scale, to find out how severe symptoms are and how much they affect daily life. Your clinician can choose one and help you interpret it.

American Psychiatric Association · Updated borderline personality disorder practice guideline (news release, Dec 10, 2024)

One validated screener is the McLean Screening Instrument for Borderline Personality Disorder, a 10-item self-report questionnaire. In its first study of 200 adults with a history of mental health treatment, a cutoff of 7 or more of the 10 items correctly flagged 81% of people who had the disorder and correctly cleared 85% of those who did not. A positive screen means a fuller assessment is needed, not a diagnosis.

The questionnaire is copyrighted and distributed through the ePROVIDE licensing service. We could not confirm permission to reproduce it on a public website, so it is not included here. You can ask a clinician about it.