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Weekly emotions and skills diary card

A one-week sheet for rating emotional distress and urges, noting what set them off, and writing down the skills or coping you tried, with rows for sleep, alcohol or drugs, medicines, and safety. Fill it in each day and bring it to your next appointment.Download PDFThe PDF can be filled in on a computer or printed and written by hand.

Printable weekly diary card

Weekly emotions and skills diary card

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Scroll the table sideways to see all 7 days. The PDF and the printed sheet fit the whole week on one page.

One column per day of the week, one row per thing to note
Each dayMonTueWedThuFriSatSun
Emotional distress0 = calm, 10 = worst/ 10/ 10/ 10/ 10/ 10/ 10/ 10
Strongest emotionsFor example sad, angry, ashamed, empty
What set it offWhat happened, and when
Urge to hurt myself0 = none, 10 = strongest/ 10/ 10/ 10/ 10/ 10/ 10/ 10
Other strong urgesFor example to drink, spend, or lash out
Skills or coping I usedWhat I tried, and did it help
SleepHours last nighthrshrshrshrshrshrshrs
Alcohol or drugsWhat, and how much
Medicines takenName and dose; note any missed
Self-harmYes or noYesNoYesNoYesNoYesNoYesNoYesNoYesNo
Thoughts of suicideYes or no. If yes, call or text 988YesNoYesNoYesNoYesNoYesNoYesNoYesNo

If you have thoughts of suicide or of hurting yourself on any day, do not wait for your appointment. Call or text 988 or chat at 988lifeline.org to reach the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, free and confidential, 24/7. In a life-threatening situation, call 911.

What helped this week

Skills, people, places, or plans that made a hard moment easier.

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Questions for my next appointment

Write them down as they come up during the week.

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Why keep a diary card

Tips for tracking and bringing notes

Crisis wording follows the National Institute of Mental Health brochure on borderline personality disorder.

Next step

Bring the diary card to your appointment